• Walk with me

    Walk with me

    As I’ve been sharing on social media, on Christmas eve day I began walking daily. It was just spur of the moment. I was busy with something and suddenly I just felt like I needed to take a break, outside, alone. So off I went for a walk down our quiet prairie road. I took deep breaths of the cold winter air and walked at whatever pace I felt like walking. Sometimes fast, and sometimes stopping to pick up any rocks that caught my eye. I guess I walked like I was a kid again, off exploring on my own.

    As a child I loved doing that. For some years as a young child we lived on an acreage, and I got to go exploring all the time. Then in my teen years we moved near the ocean, and more great exploring was to be had. I often walked to the beach alone and would walk, and sit, explore, pick up shells and rocks, and simply enjoy my time alone. I was never truly alone, as I often spent my time talking with God about all the deep and pressing issues I faced that day/week/month/year.

    When I got married, my husband and I would walk together. Once our first child came along, we continued walking with her in the snuggly, along with our two dogs. Then more kids came and I always made a point of getting out to walk with the kids. Often we would go on nature walks. I loved those nature walks as much as they did. We explored beaches, trails, mountains and any little forest paths we ever found. Finding so many treasures along the ways. The photos I have of all these adventures warms my heart.

    But then the kids grew up, got busy with their own lives and their own adventures alone or with their new friends/boyfriend/girlfriend etc.. My husband isn’t much into walking anymore, he walks a lot at work. He will walk if I ask him to, but I can tell he doesn’t really want to… so I didn’t really ask often. But I missed walking and I was always kind of on pause, waiting for someone to walk with me.

    But on Christmas eve day I suddenly remembered that I used to really enjoy just walking, alone, not waiting for someone else to come along, just heading out the door and doing it. So I did it. And it felt great! And I wondered why I hadn’t thought of this before??

    So now almost every day since that first day, I’ve been walking. I started with 20 minutes and yesterday I was up to 55 minutes. I’m proud of myself for finally doing it. 🙂

    A few days into this decision to just keep walking, I came across a virtual challenge. I’d never heard of such a thing so I looked into it. And wow, did it look like fun! To have an extra goal to aim for on top of the enjoyment of just getting out and walking every day sounded very appealing. And it’s weird, I don’t normally do this kind of thing but for whatever reason the timing was right and I decided to jump in. I picked the shortest challenge, to make sure I could and would actually stick with it, and away I went for a walk with a purpose to enjoy myself and add distance to my new challenge. To walk the distance of the English Channel.

    Last weekend I finished my first challenge! I’m being sent a medal for this. Isn’t that cool? Along the way I also received notifications and e-postcards with detailed information about the area and its history. For this knowledge nerd, that was yet another bonus!

    I’ve never been one to receive medals of any kind, track and field, science fairs, you name it, I was typically so-so at it. Did ok, but never enough for a medal, so this is a fun bonus. To me, a medal may seem silly but I’ve always been a big believer that the most important challenge is to challenge ourselves to do better that we did before, and that’s exactly what this is for me. A time to get going on something I’ve been missing out on for a while, and to keep going further and further in it. To not give up.

    I was sent a certificate too. And along the way of my challenge, every 20% I completed, a tree was planted for my efforts. Yet another bonus! Trees are important to me. I plant many every year right here on our property, and now someone else is planting trees on my behalf elsewhere!

    This first challenge wasn’t huge, but that doesn’t matter to me. I finished it, and I did it in just over half the time I alloted for myself. For my second challenge, I’m doubling my distance and doing the Mount Everest challenge.
    I’m excited for this one because as you go along, you can check on the app where you are in the world, and for the English Channel, there just wasn’t a whole lot to see out there in the middle of water. Ha!

    Yesterday I started the challenge and here’s where I ended my first walk, virtually;

    I think that’s pretty cool, to be able to use the power of the world wide web to see where I would be if I had walked that distance climbing Mount Everest! I look forward to seeing more views along the way!

    There is a cost to join these challenges, but I feel the cost is very fair considering all I’m getting out of it and it includes the cost of the medals being shipped to you. If you are interested in joining a challenge, use my link below and you’ll get a discount, and I’ll get a discount too! Win Win! Plus we’ll both get in better shape, mentally and physically while working towards a very fun goal. 🙂

    https://www.theconqueror.events/r/PW256

    I’m going to be sharing videos of my walks fairly regularly on my new tiktok account (HomesteadEmporium on there) so come find me! I like doing the Mount Everest challenge here in winter right now because I figure some of the weather I’ve been experiencing here on the Canadian prairies is probably a little similar to what I’d experience climbing a mountain. So far I’ve had some nice sunny days, a freezing rain day, snowy days and super chilly days where my face felt like it may freeze up and I walked in the door to my daughter laughing at me calling me frosty because I was covered in frost on my face and hair!

    On that day I was thinking it may be best to exercise inside, but honestly, it’s the walking outside part that’s most important to my mental health so I went out anyways. For my work, I sit at my desk, cutting table, sewing table, etc. and when I go outside it’s far removed from my work, so it’s very good for me. While on my walk I’ll give myself little extras to do part of the ways, like arm circles, a marching walk with knees up high, fast walk, speed walk, suck in my tummy muscle workouts etc., everything I can’t do while working in a chair. It’s been very good for me. And part of the walk, I just focus on breathing deep, relaxing my shoulders and being.

    I hope some of you will join and reap all these wonderful benefits as well. If it’s not possible for you to head outside for a walk, don’t let that stop you. This is what’s working for me. Maybe for you it’s walking on a treadmill, or riding an exercise bike, or going swimming at a pool or walking up and down your stairs. It doesn’t really matter what you do. What’s important is to just do it! If you do, leave a comment and let me know!

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    Thanks for being here with me!

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  • A new season

    To say that I’m excited for my maker’s yearbook would be a huge understatement!

    For the past 15 years since I first began creating and selling online, I’ve been running my business by revolving it, and myself, around raising and homeschooling 5 kids. This next year, it’s all about switching the focus onto me as the creator, and my business planning. After 28 years of being kid focused, I’m very ready for this next phase.

    I bought the maker’s year book to help me stay tuned into that new direction.

    It’s not that raising five kids and homeschooling set me off course either. It was my life. I loved it and I’d do it all again in a minute! My kids, my husband, homeschooling and my home have always been the driving force behind this business. The inspiration in fact! Indeed, the reason the business first came about was as I researched reusables because my first daughter was soon becoming a teen.

    No, I do not begrudge these past years of revolving the business or myself around any of it in any way. The business allowed me to be mom, to be home, right where I desire to be. I’m so grateful.

    All of it is exactly what has brought me here to this place, right here, right now.

    I love this place.

    But the kids are grown now. My youngest, our twins, turn 20 this weekend. A new season is beginning. A season of refocus and renewal. And I can’t wait!

  • FIFTEEN year celebration!

    Fifteen years. FIFTEEN YEARS!
    This little business of ours has been fifteen years in the making. So far.

    *Just a note for everyone reading, especially those who may be new to our business and/or blog. All the photos shared in this post are screenshots from way back when… most are close to 15 years old. Our products have changed a lot since then, so be sure to check us out on our facebook page and join us as we celebrate 15 years in business! www.facebook.com/homesteademporium

    On the one hand it feels like only yesterday that I began this journey. On the other, as I’ve been reminiscing while going through all these photos and screenshots of our humble beginnings, it feels like a lifetime ago.
    In many ways, it’s five life times ago. All five of our children have grown up since!

    When I first began making cloth pads at home to share with others, our twins were just four years old. Now, they will be 20 years old just next month!
    This business has spanned almost their entire lives. Our youngest three likely don’t remember me before I was behind a sewing machine most of my days.
    Likely, our eldest two don’t either. They were 12 and 10 when I began this business, but I had spent many years sewing before then! I used to sew all hours into the night to get outfits made for both of them, costumes, bathing suits, bags… oh the bags I made for my kids… maybe they miss those days when I sewed more for all of them than for anyone else?

    Fifteen years ago this was the very first ‘banner’ I ever had. I was SO excited and SO proud of this banner. It ROTATED information! Perhaps some of you remember when that was really amazing?!?! lol
    The internet has come a long way since then too…

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    My very first ‘official’ site. It all began as Homemade Mama. I’ve actually missed that title ever since I first gave it up. I truly feel like Homemade Mama.
    But, we wanted a name that would fit the whole family, a name that would suit a ‘family’ business, and allow our kids (and even hubby if he was ever so inclined- I actually haven’t given up hope on that one yet) to create anything and everything they could ever want to create and share with the world alongside of me. So we said goodbye to Homemade Mama, and hello to the official family business, Homestead Emporium.

    I love to look back on the early days though.

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    Boy, I felt so ‘grown up’! Ha!
    I laugh at that now. A happy laugh though, because I still remember those feelings of excitement in those early days,

    Truth be told, I STILL get those same feelings of excitement over this business. I truly understand what a blessing that is.

    To do what you love, and to love what you do.

    Every. Day.

    Take a look at that Ultimate Pad (now called the UltiMax- and looking a little different).
    I actually still have it’s twin here, the very first one. I’ve kept it all these years. One day I’ll likely make a ‘shadow box’ of it for my sewing space.
    Just because.
    It was my first step into really going the extra ‘mile’ so to speak, in my creating. From that first Ultimate pad came a whole lot of other pads that were all very unique back then.

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    Fifteen years of creating. Fifteen years of getting to be ME, in all that I do! Fifteen years of sharing a part of me in all of my work.

    Blessed.

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    With each new look, I felt more and more grown up!
    My products became more polished. My excitement only grew. That excitement never wavered. I think that’s quite amazing.

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    All these photos of my kids when they were little. Some of  you will remember these. Some of you and your children have grown up alongside us! How amazing is that?!

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    Look at that sweet face!! How I miss those years of my kids being littles. Working alongside me every day, whether helping me in whatever way they wanted, or simply doing their own thing right there next to me.

    We still have a little of that going on around here, but not much anymore. Alesia has long since moved out of the family home, she’s 28 years old and living far away in British Columbia. Joshua is 26 now. Has had his own little acreage just 12 minutes from us for about the past 4.5 years. Elsa is away at college this year, so we only see her the odd weekend, and during breaks. And Shaylah and Julia, the only two children who were more than happy to always oblige in photos and thus show up on just about every old HomemadeMama/HomesteadEmporium page you’ll ever find. Both of them, almost 20 years old now, and both working as Care Aids with disabled adults and working towards more schooling. For now, both are still living at home, but we know it’s just a matter of time now.

    Bittersweet. All this growing up.

    And look at these other screenshots I found on the wayback machine!

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    Jewelry that Alesia made. I still remember those pieces! She would have been about 13 or 14 at the time she made these.

    And look what else I found!

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    More twin photos, and look, there’s Joshua! I wouldn’t be surprised if he still has that tool apron somewhere!

    The other day I posted a photo of him on facebook for his birthday. He was about 5 or 6 years old holding his favourite stuffed dog.
    He sent me back a photo of him now, with that same stuffed dog. lol It was too funny!

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    I made toys back in the day!

    I wonder if any of them are still out there. I know we’ve got a few of them here. That little bunny foo foo was a favourite of mine. One day when I have grandchildren I know I’ll be itching to get creating toys again! Likely not for the shop though, but definitely for my grandkids. 🙂

    But let’s not forget THE PADS!

    Through all these past 15 years I’ve created many different things but one thing has always remained, and that is THE PADS!
    No matter how hard I tried to get my customers to love something, anything, better than my homemade cloth pads, it just wasn’t happening. I had to come to the realization that I would forever be that pad woman.

    Again I say “Ha!” lol

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    I will admit to being somewhat embarrassed by my business in those beginning years. Not online mind you, but definitely in person.
    People would always ask me, “So what do you do?” And my answer would always be, “I create cloth products that we ship worldwide,”
    Then inevitably the next question would always be…. “what kind of cloth products?’ to which my HUSBAND of all people, would always unabashedly reply, “Homemade Cloth Menstrual Pads!”

    Yes, my kids have been by my side all these 15 years in business, but it’s my husband who has always been my greatest supporter. He has never considered me crazy, even when “I” was pretty sure that I was. lol
    He’s taken thousands upon thousands of packages to the post office for me over all these years. Thousands. He’s spent HOURS sitting on the bench outside of my favourite fabric shops. He’s likely brought home thousands of packages of fabrics, snaps, thread, etc. etc. etc. home for me too. Never once complaining. Always knowing these packages that came in the door would be transformed from fabrics, to beautiful reusable products that he would then be taking to the post office to ship everywhere from Canada and the USA to Japan, Saudi Arabia, China, the Netherlands, Finland, Greece, Spain, Mexico, Malaysia, France, Belgium, Australia, New Zealand, Dubai, Africa, and so many more and more and more places all around the world that I just can’t even think of them all right now!

    At one time my husband even helped with snaps! He didn’t love it, I’ll admit to that, but he did it! Him and Joshua would do all the snaps together when things got much too big for me to do everything myself. Joshua quickly learned how to do them by himself though, and from that point on for many years Joshua did all the snaps. He was very very happy to hand over the reign of snapper to Julia though, about a year after he moved out. Very happy. lol Julia has been doing the snaps ever since.

    Then there was another time that they both helped me sew the tab style wings onto the pads. Oh that was a riot! I still get a good chuckle out of that time in history. lol My husband does NOT share my love of sewing.

    But he did it. Why? Because he supports me. I hope my children remember that as they prepare their futures, with spouses. I hope they will always support their spouses as my husband has supported me. And I hope my girls will always hold out for someone who will be there for them just as much as my husband has been here for me over these past years. Has our marriage always been perfect? No. Far from it, especially the early years! But we’ve grown, we’ve learned, we’ve matured. Just like this business.

    I hope we’ve been a good example to our children. In marriage, and in work/business. I hope our children all get to do what they love, and love what they do!

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    And with that… I’ve rambled long enough in this journey through time. We’ve grown from Homemade Mama to Homestead Emporium, and now, after many years of working towards it, 7 years ago we finally also became The Willard Homestead with the Emporium just being a part of it all.

    This isn’t the end. In some ways it is just the beginning. More about that in another post… I’ll try not to wait so long next time.

  • Healthy steps

    Just as I had been talking for years of getting into healthier eating and lifestyle habits, my husband had been talking for years of getting back into running. When one of our twins began running recently, it spurred him on to start too!

  • Spring & Baby animals, part 1

    Spring & Baby animals, part 1
    I’ll call this post baby animals, part 1, because we’ve got so many more coming yet. 🙂
    Most mornings I try to get in a walk after my first coffee, and before my second.

  • Still on the topic of health… speaking of statins.

    The article linked below speaks about just a few of the very many reasons that I didn’t run straight to the pharmacy with a prescription in March when I was told I should begin taking meds to lower my cholesterol.

  • On the topic of health… have you heard about essential oils?

    I believe I’ve mentioned on the blog that I’ve become involved in DoTerra. It’s been over a year now and I’ve just been ‘puttering’ away at it, in my usual ‘slow and steady wins the race’ kind of way. When I decide to get into something, I jump in wholeheartedly, but I don’t jump into the deep end immediately. I like to wade around in the waters for a while, really get to know what I’m doing, and then I make my way over into the deep end. 🙂 It’s just the way I am. I believe it’s because I always have quite a bit on my plate with raising kids, the home, homestead and home business. If I jump too quickly into the deep end, waves would splash over into every other area of my life and some areas would indeed flood.

  • Brutal honesty time – health and wellness

    I’ve been sharing about my health and wellness adventure on my facebook pages. For far too long I’ve been ‘hoping’ my health will get better, mainly because I actually felt really good for the most part! I haven’t been sick in a very long time, not since doTerra became a part of my life. The last time I was sick was well over a year ago now, no lie! I haven’t had a cold, flu or any other bacterial or viral sickness since. I’m able to do everything I want and need to do every day, from getting up at the crack of dawn to get my homestead and home business work done, to pulling hundreds of hay bales off a field and putting them up in the barn loft with the rest of the family every August. I keep up with the best of them! I even do better than some!

  • How’s those goals coming along?

    I read yesterday that by February 4th most people have given up on their New Year’s Resolutions.
    I thought that was kind of sad, so I figured it was time to check in!