{"id":1836,"date":"2011-09-05T15:21:58","date_gmt":"2011-09-05T15:21:58","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/homesteademporium.wordpress.com\/?p=1836"},"modified":"2011-09-05T15:21:58","modified_gmt":"2011-09-05T15:21:58","slug":"the-waiting-game-in-pregnancy-and-in-life","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/homesteademporium.com\/blog\/2011\/09\/05\/the-waiting-game-in-pregnancy-and-in-life\/","title":{"rendered":"The waiting game, in pregnancy, and in life."},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Our first child, Alesia, was born on her exact due date. I read that only 4% of ALL babies are born on their due dates. She also came fairly fast. I was &#8216;in&#8217; labour for about 24 hours, but only any real hard labour for the last 4 hours.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone\" src=\"http:\/\/homesteademporium.smugmug.com\/photos\/i-5H7BdHR\/0\/L\/i-5H7BdHR-L.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"204\" height=\"300\" \/><\/p>\n<p>When our second child was born, our only son Joshua, he surprisingly came 10 days early! That was a real nice surprise because I was far enough along in my pregnancy that he wasn&#8217;t &#8220;too&#8221; early, and he was born at a nice healthy size. My labour this time was about 12 hours, with 2 hours of hard labour..<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone\" src=\"http:\/\/homesteademporium.smugmug.com\/photos\/i-GtPQT5X\/1\/M\/i-GtPQT5X-M.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"322\" height=\"450\" \/><\/p>\n<p>When I was pregnant with our third child, Elisabeth (Elsa), everyone <em>and their uncle,<\/em> would ask me if I went on time, early, or late with my first two. So I&#8217;d always tell them I was right on time with Alesia, and 10 days early with Josh. EVERYONE <em>and their uncle<\/em> would always reply with, &#8220;Oh, then you&#8217;ll DEFINITELY go early with this one!&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t ever, EVER, tell a pregnant woman that she will deliver her baby early.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ever.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I mean it, <em><strong>don&#8217;t EVER do it.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>By week 40 I was not just due, but I was due with a BREECH baby.<\/p>\n<p>By week 41, my doctor was putting on a lot of pressure to book a c-section. I did NOT want a c-section. I knew birthing a breech baby was going to be difficult, but I was still hoping against all hope, that maybe, <em>just maybe,<\/em> she would do a sudden last minute flip flop and I&#8217;d be delivering her as easily, and as naturally, as I had delivered my first two children.<\/p>\n<p>My doctor also made me sign a waiver not holding him responsible for my pregnancy going past 40 weeks. I was fine with that. I was completely fine with being completely responsible for MY baby, and MY body, <em>thank you very much!<\/em><\/p>\n<p>He also booked me in for a c-section scheduled at week 42 and 1 day. End of discussion. If I did not deliver by then, if I did not go into labour on my own by the end of my 42nd week, he was NOT going to allow me to go any further. I was agreeable to that. As much as I was determined to give my baby, and my body, the chance to do this, I was also not into pushing things past certain limits. I agreed that if I had not gone into labour by the time I was 42 weeks and 1 day, yes, we would go ahead and do things his way.<\/p>\n<p>An induction and possible subsequent c-section was booked for January 12th, 1998.<\/p>\n<p>If you live anywhere in the vacinity of Ontario, Canada, whether it be IN Ontario, or across the US border in New York State, etc., you may just remember Januaury 1998.<\/p>\n<p>If you do not remember January 1998, let me refresh your memory, because I&#8217;m quite sure even if you do not, or did not, live in those areas of Canada and the US, you did indeed hear some news about January 1998.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/archives.cbc.ca\/environment\/extreme_weather\/topics\/258-1447\/\">http:\/\/archives.cbc.ca\/environment\/extreme_weather\/topics\/258-1447\/<\/a><\/p>\n<p>It was called<em><strong> The Great Ice Storm of 1998.<\/strong><\/em><br \/>\n<em>Canadians had never before endured a natural disaster like the\u00a0ice storm of 1998<\/em><em>. A difficult morning of car scraping quickly turned into a state of emergency\u00a0<strong>&#8230;<\/strong>\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n<p>The ice storm, happened the week\/days before my scheduled c-section.<\/p>\n<p>At that time we lived in the fairly rural, small town of Athens Ontario. Being 20-25 minutes away from the nearest hospital doesn&#8217;t seem so far away, until you go into labour, with a breech baby, in the middle of <strong><em>The Great Ice Storm.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>This post is getting MUCH too long. I shall continue tomorrow!<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Our first child, Alesia, was born on her exact due date. I read that only 4% of ALL babies are born on their due dates. She also came fairly fast. I was &#8216;in&#8217; labour for about 24 hours, but only any real hard labour for the last 4 hours. 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