{"id":3759,"date":"2014-11-22T16:10:18","date_gmt":"2014-11-22T16:10:18","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/homesteademporium.wordpress.com\/?p=3742"},"modified":"2014-11-22T16:10:18","modified_gmt":"2014-11-22T16:10:18","slug":"thought-patterns-for-teens-and-adults","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/homesteademporium.com\/blog\/2014\/11\/22\/thought-patterns-for-teens-and-adults\/","title":{"rendered":"Thought patterns, for teens (and adults!)"},"content":{"rendered":"

If you, or someone you know, struggles with negative thought patterns, this article explains proper thinking really well. *(Link at the bottom) This<\/em> is something I spend a fair amount of time talking over with all my teens. But even many adults fall into a trap with their thought patterns. This psychologist & his student have really nailed it in simple terms.<\/p>\n

As a Christian, I also remind all my teens to think how God’s LOVE<\/strong> would view what they are thinking\/seeing\/feeling, and ask themselves if they are believing negative ‘lies’ in their mind. <\/p>\n

Teens especially need to be on guard to keep themselves from believing destructive thoughts about themselves. And they ARE<\/em><\/strong> ‘lies’. <\/p>\n

I’ve shared before how one of my daughters often struggles with thoughts that she’s not pretty. This is the same daughter in the ‘Red’ costume I shared on Facebook<\/a> on Halloween! If you look at her photo, you know how false that thought is! (Not that beauty is important, this is just one<\/strong> example I can give that is so obviously a lie.)<\/em><\/p>\n

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Our teens must learn to SEE the ‘lies’ so they can learn to see & think otherwise. It’s their best defender against even worse thoughts, like not being worthy to live… We’ve all been touched by suicide in our lives, some of us many times over. I know 3 personally, or their families, who committed suicide. I attempted to commit suicide myself when I was 15. The approximate age of my three youngest girls now.<\/p>\n

Fight for your kids (and your own) minds! Make them aware of how to win the negative battles in their minds.<\/p>\n

And while we’re trying to think better about ourselves, let’s do the same when ‘assessing’ others too. I see WAY too much online ‘bullying’ happening between ADULTS lately. Be kind to one another, so our children can see it in action. It seems many think its ok to rip each other apart from behind a screen. Yet we all know its destructive, and leads to hurt, sometimes… even death.<\/em><\/p>\n

I personally feel that speaking unkindly to (or about) others online is the equivalent of drinking and driving, and thinking no one will get hurt.<\/em><\/strong> We ALL<\/strong> know drinking & driving takes lives, and people get hurt. It’s about time we realize that speaking unkindly, bullying others, participating in tearing people apart online is just as foolish. (Even on ‘famous’ people’s Facebook pages- they ARE people- Robin Williams showed us all just how human<\/strong> even the highest profile celebrities are!)<\/em><\/p>\n

We can’t be unkind to one another, and never expect to truly hurt someone.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

We’re just FEEDING<\/strong> into one another’s negative thought patterns. Do we really want to continue doing that?<\/p>\n

http:\/\/blogs.psychcentral.com\/stress-better\/2014\/11\/forget-positive-thinking-try-this-to-curb-teen-anxiety<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

If you, or someone you know, struggles with negative thought patterns, this article explains proper thinking really well. *(Link at the bottom) This is something I spend a fair amount of time talking over with all my teens. But even many adults fall into a trap with their thought patterns. This psychologist & his student […]<\/p>\n

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