Category Archives: The Heart of This Woman

  • Sustainability and Savings: The Case for Reusable Cloth Products

    When you choose reusable cloth products, you’re not just making a practical decision—you’re participating in change. By reducing waste, supporting handmade businesses, and prioritizing your health, you’re contributing to a future where sustainability is the norm, not the exception.

  • Intro

    Hi, I’m Pieternella, the maker behind Homestead Emporium!

    I started my small business way back in 2004 when all five of my kids were young, and I desired a way to earn an income from home. My business goal was simple: to create high-quality, reusable every day cloth products that are both functional and beautiful and ship them worldwide.

    From hand-dyed cloth pads designed for comfort and reliability to reusable wipes, nursing pads, and wet bags, every item I make is crafted with care and attention to detail. My mission these past 20+ years has been to help people live more sustainably without sacrificing comfort.

    Homestead Emporium is more than just a shop—it’s a place where thoughtful design meets everyday practicality. Whether you’re new to reusable products or a longtime supporter, I’m so glad you’re here!

    Feel free to browse around the blog, ask questions, or just say hello!

    I’d love to hear from you.

    #HomesteadEmporium #ReusableLiving #HandmadeWithLove #EcoFriendly

  • From Passion to Purpose: The Journey of Homestead Emporium Part 1

    From Passion to Purpose: The Journey of Homestead Emporium Part 1

    When I started Homestead Emporium back in 2004, at that time it was called Homemade Mama, I could never have imagined the incredible journey that lay ahead. At the time, I was simply a mother to five young children and a crafter. Determined to create an income from home so I could be with my children and to find solutions for my family that were more economically friendly, sustainable, comfortable, and aligned with my core values. What began as a personal need has grown into a business that touches lives around the world—helping people embrace eco-conscious alternatives while celebrating beauty and individuality in every day reusable products.

    This photo is from around the time Homestead Emporium first began!

    Where It All Began

    I was born in the Netherlands and moved to Canada as a young child. During my childhood, we moved around as my father was a home builder, but my very favourite home was the one we built on a small acreage in Alberta. We moved away from that small acreage back when I was only a preteen, but I never forgot just how much I enjoyed being surrounded by the beauty and peacefulness of nature in my every day life. From the time we moved away I found my heart longing to get back to that lifestyle for many years to come.

    Way back When! Early 2000’s when it all began online!

    It was twenty three years later that I would finally live on land once again!
    I began the business at home in 2004, while my husband, children and I were still living in a small city. Known as HomemadeMama at the time, it started as a way to bring in extra income to stay home and homeschool our five children. We knew we wanted to raise our kids on an acreage, and in 2005 we finally found a fixer upper 5 acre property we could afford! It was our dream come true and we jumped right into cleaning up that property and starting homestead life on a small scale! Soon we had horses, chickens, then pigs and even ducks! All five kids worked right along side me in any way their hearts desired as the years went on, from creating their own products to helping with the cutting of fabrics, putting snaps on the pads, and even packaging orders! Each one of them earned their own income and used it to purchase and care for their own animals. It was such a blessing for us all!

    However… it wasn’t too long before we realized we would quickly outgrow our property.
    As our kids grew, some of them wanted even more animals and I truly desired a HUGE garden and LOTS of trees! Our next goal was more land where we could raise and grow anything and everything any of us could possibly ever want. However, the cost to buy property of any kind on Vancouver Island was becoming SO high that we just couldn’t afford more where we were. We also knew it was only a matter of time before our children would be faced with possibly moving off the island to afford their own homes one day. As beautiful as the island is, there was no getting past the constant feeling of being ‘stuck’ on an island. The added cost and complications to travel off the island to visit family, or to travel, was always an issue. We knew that would only become much worse if our children grew up and moved off the island in the future!

    So began the search for a larger homestead elsewhere. We began a search Canada wide! Through MANY years of great difficulty, many ups and downs, all at a time that the market went bust, my husband finally landed a job in 2012, in Saskatchewan! A province between both our families, mine in BC and his in Ontario! Perfect! People always say to me, “Why would you want to live in the middle of nowhere?” to which I always reply, “We actually live in the middle of EVERY where!”

    Our time in Saskatchewan did not begin easy. In our first year here we moved THREE times. Not just ourselves, but our five horses, dogs, cats and even ducks! Each time we’d find a home and expect that it would be THE final destination! We built fences and even structures for the horses at every property. But each time we settled in, some sort of unfortunate event that we had no control over, forced us to find yet another place to move to and start all over again. Through it all, God was directing and working, and blessed us through the help of many new friends. The homestead we finally moved onto in April of 2013 was the homestead we’ve enjoyed ever since.

    Home, we were FINALLY home.

    I’ve often joked that we need a sign at our place that says,
    “The FINALLY HOME-stead”

    During the years, working the business has been my grounding place, my retreat.
    A way to relax the mind through creativity and busy hands during some very difficult times. I poured my heart into creating the very best reusable products that I possibly could! I wanted products that were luxuriously soft, absorbent, and functional, without sacrificing beauty. Before long, the business grew as word spread. I very fondly remember the Friday afternoon’s that the kids and I would watch as all our handmade products became “live” on our shopping page, at that time it was Hyenacart, now called Indiecart. All the items would sell out in mere hours, sometimes even minutes! The kids would get SO excited by our customers enthusiasm! Truthfully, so did I. I felt like a child myself from the excitement!
    It’s been so wonderful to see all our hard work being appreciated through some of the toughest times we’ve been through as a family.

    Our Mission and Values

    At Homestead Emporium, our mission is simple: to provide sustainable, reusable products that bring comfort and joy to everyday life. I believe that small changes—like switching to reusable cloth pads—can make a big difference for both the earth and our personal well-being.

    Sustainability is at the core of everything we do. I am very much a ‘waste not-want not’ kind of person. I always have been. Each product is handmade with care, using thoughtfully chosen fabrics that are gentle on the skin and the environment and even cutting the fabrics in ways that wastes as little as humanly possible. I personally hand-dye most of the materials we use, turning each piece into a work of art. It’s a true labour of love that reflects the uniqueness of every customer we serve.

    From our Homestead to the World

    Running Homestead Emporium from our Saskatchewan homestead has its challenges, but it also keeps me grounded in what matters most. My faith, our family’s lifestyle, raising animals, tending the land, and embracing the rhythms of nature— it inspires everything I create.

    The connection between my personal life and my business is seamless. The same care that goes into nurturing our land is mirrored in the care I put into every product. Whether it’s a hand-dyed cloth pad or another one of our reusable cloth products, each item carries a piece of our homestead with it.

    A Community of Change-Makers

    One of the most rewarding parts of this journey has been building a community of like-minded individuals. Our customers aren’t just buying products; they’re making a statement about the kind of world they want to live in. They’re parents teaching their children about sustainability, individuals embracing healthier options for their bodies and homes, and people of all backgrounds who want to leave the earth better than they found it.

    Through our shared commitment to reusable products, we’re creating a ripple effect that extends far beyond our homes. Together, we are reducing waste, conserving resources, and proving that handmade, sustainable solutions can be both practical and beautiful.

    A lovely collage, some of our wonderful customers. Photos shared with their permission.

    Looking Ahead

    As Homestead Emporium continues to grow, I remain deeply grateful for every customer, every story shared, and every step we’ve taken together toward a more sustainable future. My hope is that our products will inspire others to embrace small changes that make a big impact—not only for the earth but for their own sense of joy and connection.

    Thank you for being part of this journey. Whether you’ve been with us since the small beginnings in 2004 or are discovering Homestead Emporium for the first time here in 2025, I invite you to explore our collection, share your story, and join the movement toward mindful living.

    Explore our full range of reusable cloth products  at Homestead Emporium’s Etsy Shop.
    Let’s work together to create a future where handmade comfort, beauty, and sustainability go hand in hand, every day!

  • Autism, ADHD and Etsy

    Autism, ADHD and Etsy

    What do autism and adhd have to do with Etsy?
    In my previous post I shared for the first time that I have autism and adhd. One big reason why I finally decided to share is because I really need to begin advocating for myself, and others like me, online. My business is online and I deal with customers from all around the world on a daily basis.

    I started my business over 17 years ago, and began selling on etsy in 2010.
    I’ve always liked what etsy stands for:

    Explore one-of-a-kind finds for one-of-a-kind people
    There’s no Etsy warehouse—just millions of people selling the things they love”

    Etsy’s newest thing is to encourage sellers to become what they call, Star Sellers. Sounds great right?
    Well I’m here to say that I don’t think so.

    I would directly tell Etsy this, I’d explain all my reasons why I don’t agree with this new program, but no matter how hard I look I just can’t find any kind of contact info for my complaint. Maybe I’m just not seeing it, but when I go to the contact button I get directed in a hundred different ways and none of those ways fit my complaint and I can’t even find a direct contact button. So I’m going to air my complaints here and then hope that some how, some one at etsy will read my complaint and consider it. Because I know I can not be alone in my thoughts regarding this.

    With Etsy’s new Star Seller plan, they’ve forgotten one important thing. Not only is etsy about one-of-a-kind finds for one-of-a-kind people, but one-of-a-kind people are the ones CREATING those finds.

    Each etsy seller is one-of-a-kind, and etsy is trying it’s darndest to fit us all into one very small box!

    If you’re an etsy seller and you have autism, or adhd, or you have both like me, or perhaps you have another learning disability, or a physical disability, or maybe you have lots of kids, or you have a full time job along with your etsy side hustle, maybe you suffer from anxiety, or perhaps you are battling a sickness, or you live rural and have to drive to the nearest town to ship package (also me!), or any other number of things that causes you to not be able to be to meet the push created by this new program.

    If you’re one of those people you’ll likely never become a Star Seller on etsy. Or even if you do, maybe you agree that it’s not a good idea for etsy to be pushing things in this direction. The direction of speed=best rather than quality is number one.

    Here’s the link to the information about becoming a Star Seller: https://www.etsy.com/starseller

    Even though I have been successfully selling on etsy for over 12 years, have shipped out over 12,000 orders and received more than 2,600 five star reviews I will likely never make the cut to be considered an etsy Star Seller and I don’t even care to because this push goes against every reason I am a handmade seller.

    However, if I am not a Star Seller, even though I’m paying the same as anyone who is, I miss out on rewards from etsy. This isn’t right.

    Why?

    As a creator, and for the reasons I stated above for all of us who do not fit the regular mold, I really don’t think it’s a good idea to create a feeling like we’re being pushed to behave like machines. It leaves behind those who simply can NOT work like machines.

    Besides, that isn’t what handmade, creativity, artistry, and unique one-of-a-kind is all about.

    Is it?

    I’m very confused as to why etsy felt this was a good idea. I realize they probably didn’t considered that a system like this would be overwhelming and even punishing to some of their sellers, but I’m here to say that it is. And I’m sure I am not alone.

    So this is me letting etsy know better, so that etsy can do better.

    No matter our abilities or disabilities, each one of us are hard working individuals trying to make it in OUR business the best we are able. We deserve to be judged for the quality of our creations, for our QUALITY of customer service, and NOT for our SPEED. Why is etsy expecting it’s artists and creators to work this way?

    We are not factories or manufacturing plants.

    Leave us to be individuals who will have differing customer response times, different shipping speeds and different UNIQUE ways of customer service between each one of us and our customers!

    Be a SAFE space for sellers and trust the customers to decide for themselves with their reviews who deserves to be a STAR seller! I bet there are plenty of very unique individuals with very unique amazing creations who will never be the fastest to reply to a message or the quickest to ship an order (or to think it’s ok to add shipping costs into the price costs just to give the ‘appearance’ of free shipping… but that’s a whole other complaint for another time…) that plenty of customers might miss out ever meeting simply because they’ll never be a Star Seller according to this program.

    If you agree with my thoughts on this, please share this post and tag etsy.
    Maybe together we can bring about change and help etsy to hear our voice and get back to what’s important, one-of-a-kind finds for one-of-a-kind people CREATED BY one-of-a-kind people!

  • Adult Autism & ADHD

    Adult Autism & ADHD

    I was going to title this post as per usual, Homestead Diary February 28 2022, but today’s post is more than a daily diary post. Today’s post is not about the homestead.

    I’ve shared many times about our middle child, Elsa, who has Aspergers/Autism.
    The road that led us to finding out that Elsa has autism was a long windy road over the course of years full of side trips and rabbit trails and many bumps along the way. I won’t go any further into that, because this post isn’t about Elsa, it’s about another member of our family who has autism.

    This post is about me.

    I figured out years ago, some years after Elsa’s diagnosis, that I too likely had autism.
    Unfortunately, like adhd, autism is typically diagnosed in young boys. Girls, who grow up to become women, often don’t get diagnosed until much later in life. If they get diagnosed at all.

    This is my story.

    Growing up, no one ever suspected autism. No one even really heard of autism. I was born in 1971, a long time ago, over 51 years! Times have changed, thankfully. We know much more now, but we still don’t know enough, and that is why I have chosen to finally share my story. Elsa has always been happy to allow me to share her story, and I’ve been grateful for that, but I’ve also felt guilty each time I shared her story without sharing mine. I always made excuses as to why I shouldn’t share about me. I have a business to run, what would people think? Would they automatically have misunderstandings about me because they would just see AUTISM and no longer the business woman? Would I lose customers? Would I lose income? Would they look at me differently? Would customers shy away from purchasing from me? Would people believe me? What would friends and family think? Would I lose friends, would family disown me?

    I asked Elsa several years ago if she thought I should be as open about having autism as she is. Her response, “No, why bother, look how people treat me.”

    I knew when she said this to me, that it was actually MORE of a reason that I needed to share my secret, BUT I also knew she was right. She has put up with a lot. A lot of misunderstandings. A lot of negativity. A lot of comments… oh the comments she’s received, and that I’ve received behind her back and even right in front of her, about her being autistic, through the ignorance of people in their spoken words.

    It’s been hurtful. It’s been difficult to hear and watch and to have to constantly try to explain to others.
    Try to explain to someone that they aren’t actually understanding, when they truly believe they understand all about autism perfectly well…
    There’s been many times I’ve felt like whacking my head on a brick wall.

    When people are so sure they know it all, there’s no telling them they don’t seem to really know anything, actually. They make their assumptions about autism, and the person who has autism, and to be quite blunt and honest, at that point they typically just walk away. If not physically, you can just about see them walking away mentally. They are no long there in the conversation to converse or to learn… because they already know it all. They’ve made up their mind about what autism is and what it looks like and to them it does NOT look like Elsa, and it most certainly does NOT look like me.

    A 51 year old successful business women who has been married for over 30 years, raised five children and even homeschooled them all right through to graduation.

    Nope, that’s not what autism looks like. So how could I be autistic?

    But I am. I also have ADHD.

    It was at the appointment where I was diagnosed with adhd that I told the dr that I had not been open about being autistic except with my husband and children. I told him I wasn’t sure how others would react and that I didn’t know if I was able to deal with it. He told me that I was probably right not to tell others because most people don’t understand autism.

    Hearing him say that actually made me realize exactly why I DO need to tell others that I have autism.
    I couldn’t stop thinking about how if I don’t share, this cycle of misunderstanding is never going to end. Not that misunderstanding autism will suddenly end with me sharing, but… maybe it could end some misunderstandings in one or two people who know me?

    Maybe those one or two people will then help end the misunderstanding of autism for one or two more people? Maybe another adult with autism who’s been nervous to share will read my post and in turn decide they want to share too. Maybe then one or two people they know will better understand… and so on.

    If I desire for autism to be better understood, doesn’t it need to start right here, with me?

    And that is truly my desire.
    To help put an end to misunderstandings and misconceptions of what autism ‘looks’ like.

    Because Autism looks like me, it looks like Elsa, it most likely looks like someone else you know too. Maybe even a friend, a family member, a co-worker or a casual acquaintance.

    If you’d like to know more about adults and autism or you have autism and you want to know better how to share about it, here’s an article about sharing an adult diagnosis:
    https://adultautismcenter.org/blog/sharing-an-adult-autism-diagnosis-with-family-and-friends/

    I will likely share more soon, but for now, this post was a very big step that I have been putting off for a very very long time. It feels good to have finally written it. I have no idea how people will react, if people will change their minds about me, or my business, or about who I am as a person. I am finally at a place in my life where I’m ok with the not knowing. I guess I’m finally at a place where I am completely ok with me.

    So many times in my life I have not shared my stories, I would always think, “This isn’t just MY story to share, there are other people involved here.”

    I read a quote that said something like,
    “If we never share our story, all we will ever be is a part of someone else’s.”

    I have my own story to tell. I don’t want to just be a part of someone else’s story.

    And with that, I’m adding one of my favourite winter photos from the homestead, hitting the “publish” button and letting go of worrying about what will be once people know this part of my story.


  • Healthy steps

    Just as I had been talking for years of getting into healthier eating and lifestyle habits, my husband had been talking for years of getting back into running. When one of our twins began running recently, it spurred him on to start too!

  • Still on the topic of health… speaking of statins.

    The article linked below speaks about just a few of the very many reasons that I didn’t run straight to the pharmacy with a prescription in March when I was told I should begin taking meds to lower my cholesterol.

  • Brutal honesty time – health and wellness

    I’ve been sharing about my health and wellness adventure on my facebook pages. For far too long I’ve been ‘hoping’ my health will get better, mainly because I actually felt really good for the most part! I haven’t been sick in a very long time, not since doTerra became a part of my life. The last time I was sick was well over a year ago now, no lie! I haven’t had a cold, flu or any other bacterial or viral sickness since. I’m able to do everything I want and need to do every day, from getting up at the crack of dawn to get my homestead and home business work done, to pulling hundreds of hay bales off a field and putting them up in the barn loft with the rest of the family every August. I keep up with the best of them! I even do better than some!

  • How’s those goals coming along?

    I read yesterday that by February 4th most people have given up on their New Year’s Resolutions.
    I thought that was kind of sad, so I figured it was time to check in!

  • New year rambles, goals, pigs, writing, walking and more

    It’s January 2nd, 2016, er, .. I mean, 2017 and we’ve done so much already. I’m tired just thinking about it.
    But in a good way. In a “I’ve got my list, and I’m getting things done” kind of a way.

    Speaking of lists, in the back of my prayer journal this morning I made up a list of goals I’d like to accomplish each month. I’m not real big on ‘resolutions’, but I’m very big on goals. Not just on New Year’s day though, all the time. I actually LOVE Monday’s even, for this very reason. Monday’s are a chance to start a whole new week with a whole new set of goals!